Saturday, November 28, 2009

Put Time Back in Dinner Time

Put Time Back in Dinner Time

Eliminating distractions while eating means good times

Nov 23, 2009 | WRITTEN BY Chris Russell
Eating dinner with your family is good. Eating dinner while your son texts his friends, your daughter is on her cell phone, and you and your spouse are catching up on TV show reruns ... not so good.
A recent poll by the Associated Press and iVillage found that more than 60% of people with families said they have eaten dinner together at least five nights in the past week. But that doesn't tell the whole story.
Eating together isn't as meaningful when a quarter of the families polled say they are watching television during the meal. Nearly 40% of families have the stereo or radio on, and texting or emailing on a cell phone is "more than a rare intrusion" for 15% of them.
Think about this for a second. How fun is dinner with your family when no one is paying attention to anyone else? If anything, your family members can feel insulted. They might feel like you'd rather find out who got thrown off the island than what they did at school or work that day.
Your kids have many other hours in the day to talk to their friends. If you want to watch old shows, tape them and watch when your time permits. But don't let trivial things get in the way of talking with your spouse or children about how things are going in their lives. Talking about minor stuff like how someone's day went usually leads to conversations that are deeper, more meaningful and more fun. You'll talk about what you want out of life, how to avoid negative situations and lots more.
Getting a conversation going is the toughest part. But once the talk is underway, the real fun begins. Everyone can learn so much from just sitting down and eating together. You learn what the kids are doing in school, and it reminds you of stories you can tell them from your schooling days. Those are the things your kids will remember when they are older—the time you spent together, not the plot of some sitcom.
Research has also shown that children who have involved parents are less likely to abuse drugs and alcohol. A big part of that involvement happens at the dinner table. Don’t miss that time with your family; there will come a day when you'll want it back. Take advantage of it now.
Source: Yahoo.com

Monday, November 16, 2009

Many things at Costco are great

Many things at Costco are great!

Kirkland paper towels - There are as good as Bounty (my previous fav) and even when they run the coupons for Bounty there, the KS brand is still cheaper per towel price.

Kirkland toilet paper - I am PICKY! I only used to like Charmin. I don't like most anything out there. Their KS tp is sweet! Great deal.

Kirkland shampoo and conditioner - Again, I am picky! This stuff for 2 HUGE bottles is like $6-7. This lasts months and months and I have long hair. A lot of cheap shampoo feels like it overdries your hair or is like waxy/greasy. This feels like (if you've ever used it) Biolage, which I love, but obviously like a fraction of the price.

Kirkland alkaline batteries - like $10 for 48 AA's and they last in my opinion as long as Duracell and Energizers

Kirkland and Target trash bags - I use the white drawstring 13 gallon types. This perform better than Glad and Hefty IMHO...

Spartan bagged cereals - most of the varieties are pretty good

Friday, November 13, 2009

Everything You Ever Really Needed to Know About Personal Finance On Just One Page

Everything You Ever Really Needed to Know About Personal Finance On Just One Page

Free Download : 49 page book on Personal Finance

     The cover of this document tells you the whole story. Everything you really need to know abut personal finance can be summarized in just one page. Spend less than you earn. Earn more. Live frugal. Do something sensible with the difference. Control your own destiny. All of the other writing out there on personal finance is just details. In fact, the rest of this document is just details. What youʼll find in the rest of this document is a lot of additional detail about the points made on the cover. Beyond that, this document is heavily footnoted. If youʼre reading this document on a computer, you can click on those footnote numbers and immediately jump to online resources that expand upon that point.

The hardest part of personal finance is just having the courage to take that first step!

Ten Tips for Successful Meal Planning

Now, I know it meal planning may sound like a bit of work, but it’s much less time consuming and cheaper than not having a plan! I promise! There are so many reasons to meal plan – saving time, money and energy being the key things! Where a lot of people get stuck, I think, is how to actually start.

Ten Tips for Successful Meal Planning

  1. Just get started! Any plan, regardless of how good or bad it is, is better than having no plan at all. I love having a list of meals on my fridge so I don’t find myself scrambling at 4PM wondering what will be for dinner. It’s a lot easier planning the week’s meals on a lazy Sunday than the day of, I welcome the opportunity to just go on auto-pilot and prepare a meal, rather than think and prepare!
  2. Review the week’s sales circulars. Planning your meals around those items will really help make your grocery trip more cost effective! If the local grocery store is having a sale on chicken breast, we’re sure to put chicken parmigiana on the menu. Reviewing the circulars helps ensure you take full advantage of your store’s sales cycle.
  3. Start your shopping list during the week by writing down items you need. By starting your week during the week and keeping a runny tally of things you need, you won’t forget them on shopping day. If I do forget, I try to go without it so I can avoid a second or third trip to the grocery store and some some money that way.
  4. Shop around the edge of the store. These tend to be the fresher, less processed items. It’ll save you some money and you’ll have better nutritional options in those areas. There there are healthy options all throughout the store, but they tend to concentrate on the edge of the store.
  5. Don’t bring your kids if you can help it. Grocery stores are designed to appeal to children, they keep all the sugary cereals and all the sweets at their eye level so they can beg and plead for them. If you can help it, and I know it’s not always easy, try to go without them.
  6. Keep your normal meals and create new meals by tweaking ingredients a bit. With pasta, for example, buy whole wheat instead. When thinking about rolls or biscuits, try making your own using whole wheat flour.
  7. Cook ahead of time. Whether you make a couple of meals to freeze for busy nights or just make extra to freeze half, I’ve found it’s wonderful to know there is a home cooked meal sitting in the fridge or freezer. It’s a lot easier to defrost and/or stick something into the oven than to make a meal entirely from scratch! Another tip, I’ve made four loaves of bread at a time to freeze so that we could save money in that way.
  8. Do what you can ahead of time. This kind of sounds like the one above, but here I’m talking about the daily preparation. Last night, for example, we had a vegetable medley roast with steak. I washed and cut the vegetables in the morning as well as marinated the steak so that everything was ready to go into the oven that evening. I was much more motivated in the morning and didn’t have to really think about it, then, all day.
  9. Use leftovers! Whether you rethink them and use them to create a new meal or just eat the same thing twice, this saves so much money! I even write leftovers into our meal plan each week. I know that we’ll have them to use and I want to make sure we use them. If you hate eating leftovers, but often have food leftover from your meal, just start making less at each meal. This way, it’s helping the environment as well as your pocket book. Learn how much your family really eats.
  10. Have fun and keep it flexible! A meal plan is supposed to be helpful to a simple and peaceful home, not an extra burden.
There are so many benefits to meal planning, especially giving you more time and energy to do the things you really want and need to do!

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

What a Budget Really Means



What a Budget Really Means

A budget isn't a strait jacket, it's a battle plan

Nov 5, 2009 | WRITTEN BY Chris Russell
It's known as "the dreaded B word." That's right—the budget. People hate doing a budget because they think it restricts them. It's true that a budget is the boss of you, but only after you are the boss of it.
To make a budget, you need to turn off the television, sit down with your spouse, and write down your income for the month on one side of the page. On the other side, list every expense you have for the month. This includes food, utilities, rent, transportation, clothing, phone—everything that you are going to spend money on for the upcoming month. The income minus the outgo must equal zero. That's it; you've now made a budget.
Did you notice something? The budget only has what YOU put on it. This isn't some cruel dictator marching up to your front door with a piece of paper saying, "This is how you will live." This is you deciding what you are going to spend money on.
A budget is a battle plan, not a strait jacket. If you were going to find buried treasure, would you call the map a strait jacket? Of course not! The map shows you where to go, what to avoid, and how to do things so you don't waste your time. A budget is the exact same thing. Using one even produces the same result as a treasure map—you'll have riches at the end of it!
There are two reasons why people hate the idea of a budget. First, they feel like a budget is constantly looking over their shoulder like a hall monitor. That's not what it is, so don't think of it like that.
The second reason people don't like the budget is because they automatically assume that a budget equals no fun. That's not true. Budgets can include categories like eating out, movies, fun money and more. Unless a person is under an extreme debt load and needs to cut the lifestyle to beans and rice, they can budget for some fun stuff within reason. If he or she can't afford any fun, then they definitely need a budget!
A budget is telling the money what to do instead of wondering where it went. The sooner a person makes one and sticks to it, the sooner their situation starts getting better. It works every time!

What a Budget Really Means

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

FRUGAL LIVING LINKS

FRUGAL LIVING

Homemade Seasoning Mixes - 164 recipes for seasonings you mix at home. Avoid buying pre-packaged mixes and save money.
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Make Your Own Mixes and Convenience Foods - Complete lists of recipes in easy to find categories so you can make just about anything you are used to buying prepackaged! You will see 31 different categories of homemade mixes like beverage mixes, cookie mixes, breakfast mixes, popcorn mixes, soup mixes, and so much more.
Make your own mixes and convenience foods

Tips, Recipes, Menu Planning, and a Host of Helps for Frugal Living - These websites and blogs share many of the aspects of living frugally.
www.hillbillyhousewife.com - includes menus for feeding you family on $45/week or $70/week.
www.tiphero.com - money saving tips for just about anything
www.prudencepennywise.blogspot.com - "scandalously good food on a budget"
www.pinchingyourpennies.com - "learn & share how to save money in all aspects of your life"
organizedhome.com - "Clean house, cut clutter, and get organized at home"
www.kingdomfirstmom.com - "balancing faith, family, and frugality"
mommysnacks.blogspot.com - "a daily living blog to save, earn, live, and learn"
www.frugalrimama.com - "saving money while shopping, making money online, and more"
www.moneysavingmom.com - "helping you be a better home economist"
www.repairclinic.com - A DIY site to purchase appliance parts, and get help on repairs
www.mealsmatter.org - "healthy eating and meal planning made easier"

13 Tips for Shaving 20% Off your Grocery Bill

Everyone is looking for ways to save money. Consumable items are one of the most obvious areas of savings. I am often asked how we manage to keep our grocery budget low, and the tips below will help you find ways to slice your grocery bill by at least 20 percent.

Plan a Menu
Write the menu on the family calendar that has everything else on it. The activities listed on this calendar will trigger your thoughts on who will be available for each day's meals. It will also highlight crunch days so you can plan accordingly. Days where you are running kids around after school or work may require a slow cooker meal. The family calendar helps you recognize these days and plan accordingly. One key element for saving the 20% is to use your favorite store's sales flier when planning the menu which leads me to the next item.

Shop the Sales
If you do not get the weekly sales flier delivered, look online. I review our store's flier on the web each week. Plan your menu around the meats and produce that are on sale that week. If there is a particularly good sale item that you use often make a note to stock up on it. Over time, you get a general feel for how much of one item you might need before the next sale. Many areas repeat sales every twelve weeks. I find that certain items go on sale much more frequently. I am fairly aware of how often the sales come around for my most commonly used ingredients. In my house, this week's menu will have sale items from both last week's and this week's ads. If ground beef family packs are at a super low price, you can stock up and use it for several weeks. I generally bring the sales flier to the dinner table one night and mention the meats and produce on sale. I ask family members what sounds good to them and get other requests for the grocery list. Make your menu from the sales flier and then make your grocery list using both the menu and the sales flier.

Buy Only What You Need
I make my grocery list on business reply envelopes from junk mail inserts. It provides a place for the coupons and cash. We all know that you are supposed to make a list and stick to it. That is impossible for me but not impossible for my husband. I am the family cook so when I go through the store, I end up spending more. Sure, I might pick up an item or two that should have been on the list but reality is that I pick up a lot of things that we really do not need. So, my husband takes the list, shops only the list and comes home with whatever is on the list. I chuckle as I write this because it is important to note that he calls me at least twice during every grocery excursion. If everyone is agreeable, give this chore to the one who is most likely to spend the least.

Cook from scratch
There are those who are clueless on how to cook from scratch and know it, there are those who think they are scratch cooks, and finally, there are those who really are scratch cooks. I ask people to check their pantries and refrigerators to determine which kind of cook they are. True scratch cooks usually don't have a lot of the following:

. Boxed mixes such as pancake mix, brownie mix, cake mix, seasoned noodle mixes, seasoned rice mixes, and muffin mixes.
. Jarred items such as meat marinades, pasta sauces, cheese sauces/dips, and salad dressings.
. Packet mixes such as taco seasoning, gravy packets, and soup packets.
. Bottles of iced tea, sports drinks, chocolate milk, and sweet drinks.
. Cans of soup, enchilada sauces, chili, ready-made pasta dishes, and spaghetti sauce.

If you routinely buy a lot of the items above, that isn't scratch cooking. Scratch cooking is making nacho cheese sauce using a basic white sauce and cheese. Scratch cooking is making pancakes and muffins using flour, sugar, milk, oil and eggs. Scratch cooking means making gravy from pan drippings, taco seasoning from spices kept on hand, and iced tea by boiling tea bags in water. Scratch cooks make their own chili and a lot of their own soups. Scratch cooks use basic brown or white rice and season it accordingly. I do not wish to imply that scratch cooking is necessarily the best way to cook, but it certainly is the cheapest way to cook. Most scratch cooks have their favorite packets, boxes and jars, but for the most part, you won't find their pantry full of them.

If you realize that maybe you are not a scratch cook, there are all sorts of websites and cookbooks that can help you become one. It is very rewarding because it allows you to have more control over the quality of food you serve your family in addition to saving money. If you choose not to be a scratch cook, make note of the prepared items you buy regularly and know what the rock bottom prices are for them and try to buy them at those prices.

Clean Like Grandma Did
Cleaning supplies has gotten very fancy and very disposable. It is also very expensive. Think about how your grandmother cleaned windows. She probably used basic ingredients like ammonia, vinegar and water. She probably used old newspapers to wash her windows. Take a hard look at your cleaning supplies and see how it compares to Grandma's. Is your glass cleaner now a pack of wipes rather than an off brand bottle that requires a rag? Is your furniture cleaner now a wipe? Does your duster and toilet brush now require disposable replacements? These things are very convenient but add greatly to the grocery bill. My cleaning supplies consist of some very basic items such as ammonia, bleach, soap, and lots of rags made from old t-shirts, towels and sheets. When you wish to save money in any area, consider how grandma handled it.

Prepare for Tomorrow's Meal Tonight
This suggestion came from a frugality book I read several years ago. This alone, saves our family about $100 a month. I know from personal experience that one of the hardest things to do at the end of a busy workday is to come home and cook dinner. Regardless of our vocations, we family cooks are busy all day. Thinking ahead by one day can save your family hundreds of dollars a year by avoiding fast food and restaurant meals. When I think ahead by one day, it almost guarantees we will eat at home the next day instead of heading to a restaurant. How many times have you eaten out because you forgot to thaw the meat? When cooking and cleaning up dinner tonight, take some steps to prepare tomorrow night's meal. Check the menu, verify you have the ingredients, gather the ingredients and place them front and center on the counter or on a shelf, and pull out the meat to thaw. If you are going to use the slow cooker, put all the ingredients in the crock and place it in the fridge. If you need another family member to start the process before you get home tomorrow night, put up the reminder sticky note tonight. If you need to marinate meat, whip up the marinade tonight and put a note on the garage door or fridge to remind yourself to pour the marinade over the meat in the morning. Also take the time to pack tomorrow's lunches for those who need one. My husband and teens clean up so I am free to work on these other things while they are busy. A nice benefit is that we are all in the kitchen after dinner still spending family time together. This simple change in habit of starting the process the night before saves us a minimum of $40 a week because it stops us from eating out.

Put Smorgasbord Night on the Menu
This represents one of those things I thought everyone did and was surprised to learn otherwise. Smorgasbord night is our term for using leftovers. It is best understood if I describe a typical night. The night before grocery shopping day, I will do smorgasbord night. What I do is inventory everything we have not eaten during the week. I make a special effort to use anything that has a short life span. I generally display all the smorgasbord items on a big white platter or large cutting board for appeal. Here is how it works. One or two leftover pieces of pizza get cut into bite-sized pieces, heated, and placed on the platter. Remaining fruit gets cut into wedges or bite sized pieces and added to the platter. Enough deli turkey for one sandwich will get made into a sandwich, cut into wedges, and added to the platter. Raw vegetables are added. Sometimes I have some ingredients I can pull together from leftovers to make a wrap or a quesadilla. I will pull those together, cut them into smaller portions and add them to the platter. I use party toothpicks on some items like wraps to keep them together or on chunks of pineapple or other fruit for easy handling. Even an extra piece of lasagna or an extra burrito will get warmed and cut into smaller portions. Each family member gets a variety of food and walks away from the table feeling satisfied. I get the satisfaction of a cleaned out fridge and the good feeling of making sure we use up the food before bringing in more food.

Make Do with What You Have
I initiated a $25 a week grocery challenge to some members last year. The goal for each family who took the challenge was to commit to cutting their grocery bill to $25 a week to buy bread, milk and perishables so we could use up what we had. The challenge forced us to make our own chicken broth, it forced us to use up some unusual grains we bought for special recipes, it forced us to get very creative with our cooking and to try new things. About a dozen took the challenge and the reality was that several of us felt like our food was multiplying. I found a mystery grain in my cupboard and after figuring out what it was (bulgur), cooked it like rice and now we know my family likes it better than rice. I started making chicken broth from scratch again by throwing the bones into a crock full of water with celery ends, onion ends, a clove of garlic and some pepper. I let it cook all night, turn it off in the morning and allow it to cool. Strain it and place the broth in container to freeze. Several of us made it 7 weeks spending 75% less than what we would normally spend.

Save Bits and Pieces
I keep two containers in my freezer, one for beef based items and one for chicken based items. A small portion of beef roast left, it gets cut into soup or stew sized pieces and goes into the container. Six green beans left, they go into a container. A little dab of onion goes into the container. A small bit of gravy goes into the container. When the container is a little over half full, I make soup with it. Did you know that leftover mashed potatoes make terrific potatoes soup the next night?

Take a Trash Inventory
Analyze your trash and see if what you are throwing away tells you something. Are you throwing away Ziploc bags instead of rewashing and reusing? Are you throwing out beef or chicken bones before using them to make broth? Are there a lot of paper towels going into the trash instead of using dishrags and cloth towels? When you throw away an old t-shirt, do you cut it up into rags and only throw away the unusable parts. Are you throwing away the heels of bread instead of saving them up and making homemade croutons, using them for French onion soup, or your own Italian bread crumb mix? I dust my house with old gym socks. I put them on both hands and go through with my spray and do double handed dusting. There is a lot of money in that trash can if you look at it with the right thought process.

The Art of Leftovers
I don't know if everyone's family is like mine but no one in my house (except me) will actually open the lid of a plastic container to see what is inside it. That is where most of my food waste use to occur. These days, if I have enough roast beef and mashed potatoes left over for someone to have for lunch, I arrange it on a plate. I will put the gravy in a small glass bowl on the same plate. Then I will wrap the plate up with plastic wrap and set it on a shelf in the fridge. If I do this, DH will actually grab the plate and heat it up for lunch. I will often make a platter of fruits and veggies and do the same thing. I find that if I make the food look appealing and set it where it can be seen, it will actually get eaten and I have less waste. When the kids were younger, I would pull the platter of fruits and veggies out of the fridge right after school. I would add crackers and pb or cheese and maybe a couple of cookies. Since they were always starving after school, it was a great time to get them to eat some fruits and veggies. After school, I think they would have eaten cardboard if I arranged it artfully enough.

Learn to Pull a Meal Out of Thin Air
You look in the fridge and there doesn't seem to be much there. This is where creativity kicks in. I can usually pull together a fried rice dish or a quesadilla with just about anything. A little chicken or beef can easily turn into chicken or beef fried rice. Chopped carrots, chopped onion, chopped celery, a florret to broccoli chopped, one egg and the little bit of meat, an egg and some soy sauce can easily become an entree. Some tomato paste, dried herbs, chopped garlic and onion can become pizza sauce. Flour, water, sugar and yeast can become pizza crust. Greens such as fresh basil or some spinach and some cheese can become the toppings. Cheese, spinach, peppers, and onions and a little leftover chicken often become quesadillas for us. Cream cheese mixed with herbs and garlic can be spread on bagels or crackers served along with the remaining fruits or veggies to become a lighter meal. Think about some of the appetizers you see on restaurant menus and try to duplicate them as a lighter meal.

Learn to Say NO to Overconsumption
My brother was complaining a couple weeks ago that his family goes through 4 gallons of milk a week. I just looked at him and said, "So stop it and don't buy 4 gallons. Only buy 2 and see if they still survive. I guarantee they will." He said he never says NO to milk. I disagree wholeheartedly. Just because they will consume it doesn't mean you are obligated to provide it to the saturation point. The nutritional needs AND the family budget need to be balanced. In our house, if we are out of milk, that means we are out of milk until shopping day. It taught our kids to ration things out a bit and to not be gluttonous about consuming all they wanted. If your kids can holler, "Mom, we are out of milk," and you replace it within 24 hours, you might consider evaluating consumption habits. Allowing family members to think they can consume from a limitless well is both expensive and leads to bad eating habits.

The point of this post is to think a few years back and consider how your grandmother would manage her household. As you get ready to pull an item off the shelf, ask yourself if your grandmother would have bought that item. If not, what would she have used instead? Bets are it is a lot cheaper than what you are about to buy.


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Friday, November 6, 2009

How to fight 5 food-budget killers - MSN Money

How to fight 5 food-budget killers - MSN Money

Prices for eggs, milk and flour have soared in the past year, rising faster than other staples. Experts share their secrets for stretching your food dollar.

Monday, November 2, 2009

Menu Planning: Save Time In The Kitchen | Organized Home

Keep tabs on menu planning with this free printable weekly menu planner form for your Household Notebook. 
Menu Planning: Save Time In The Kitchen | Organized Home

Menu planning doesn't have be complicated. A small investment of time can reap great rewards:
A menu plan saves money. Reducing trips to the supermarket, a menu plan reduces impulse spending. Using leftovers efficiently cuts food waste, while planned buying in bulk makes it easy to stockpile freezer meals at reduced prices.
A menu plan saves time. No dash to the neighbors for a missing ingredient, no frantic searches through the freezer for something, anything to thaw for dinner.
A menu plan improves nutrition. Without the daily dash to the supermarket, there's time to prepare side dishes and salads to complement the main dish, increasing the family's consumption of fruits and vegetables.
Follow these tips to put the power of menu and meal planning to work for you!

$5 Dinners

$5 Dinners


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15 Uses for Coffee Filters

15 Uses for Coffee Filters

1. Cover bowls or dishes when cooking in the microwave. Coffee filters make excellent covers.
2. Clean windows and mirrors. Coffee filters are lint-free so they’ll leave windows sparkling.
3. Protect China – Separate your good dishes by putting a coffee filter between each dish.
4. Filter broken cork from wine. If you break the cork when opening a wine bottle, filter the wine through a coffee filter.
5. Protect a cast-iron skillet. Place a coffee filter in the skillet to absorb moisture and prevent rust.
6. Apply shoe polish. Ball up a lint-free coffee filter.
7. Recycle frying oil. After frying, strain oil through a sieve lined with a coffee filter.
8. Weigh chopped foods. Place chopped ingredients in a coffee filter on a kitchen scale.
9. Hold tacos. Coffee filters make convenient wrappers for messy foods.
10. Stop the soil from leaking out of a plant pot. Line a plant pot with a coffee filter to prevent the soil from going through the drainage holes.
11. Prevent a Popsicle from dripping. Poke one or two holes as needed in a coffee filter.
12. Wax Eyebrows – Do you think we used expensive strips to wax eyebrows? Use strips of coffee filters.
13. Absorb Grease – Put a few in a plate and put your fried bacon, French fries, chicken fingers, etc. on them. Soaks out all the grease.
14. Razor nicks – Keep in the bathroom. They make great “razor nick fixers.”
15. Hats - They also make great play hats for kids!


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Free Budget Excel Document: Simple, easy and includes mid-month feature

Free Budget Excel Document: Simple, easy and includes mid-month feature

I have been looking for budgets and trying them out. The quicken program is awesome for the account balance feature and bill reminders. However, the quicken budget is tedious, a little difficult, and tends to focus on several months instead of just the current month. I find this true with the Dave Ramsey budget and several others. I have been having trouble finding a simple, yet effective budget spreadsheet tool.

The link below is a FREE and easy excel based budget that looks perfect for our needs. I will be setting it up today for November 2009 budget. Other spreadsheets seem to show several months and do not offer the mid-month budget feature. Since we get paid every two weeks from our jobs, every so often we would overspend a little in the first paycheck, and be short in the second. To resolve this, we would like to set a budget for each paycheck.


Click the following link and then select Monthly Budget at the bottom tab of the spreadsheet to set up your budget...Don't forget to save the document!!
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